Bernadette Protti IS Jeannette Tomanka: Bernadette Protti found! New name Jeannette Tomanka!

Saturday, December 6, 2014

Bernadette Protti found! New name Jeannette Tomanka!

Bernadette Protti aka Jeannette Tomanka

For many years I have been reading about Kirsten Costas and Bernadette Protti. Since the time I watched the lifetime movie "A Friend to Die For", I found myself obsessed with this case. Years later the Costas family is still in pain and they will never have their beloved child back. But Bernadette and her family have moved on had children successful careers (Google Virgina Protti Varela) she is a CEO now! I have dedicated this blog to honor Kirsten's memory.

Virginia Protti Varela the CEO

Bernadette has changed her name to Jeannette Tomanka. A quick Google search and you will see what she has been up to. She also runs a fake Facebook and Twitter account where she uses her name but changes the location to through web sleuths off into thinking that's not her. But pay close attention to the page. She never shows her face or has photos and her friends and family call her Bernie, but she quickly deletes those comments. I don't know why other blogs will not out her. It isn't illegal and I would never post her numbers or addresses even though they are easily google-able. I'm not protecting a murderer. If she committed that crime today she would still be locked up.

Oh, and Virginia and Jeannette or Bernie don't even bother with the dumb and senseless comments you leave. I suggest you change your name again or better yet just apologize to the Costas family and own the fact your're a killer. That's a fact. And now your sister is a a millionaire and it was her knife. So she claims. The Costas family should sue you clowns for every penny your worth since you guys are not "poor" anymore.

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At November 12, 2024 at 5:26 PM , Anonymous said...: This blog is a shit show and very disrespectful to Kirsten's memory. I used to post here and it was toxic then, but it is so much worse now. There is one person here that writes to herself constantly. She has been doing it for 10 years now. Absolutely crazy that this is still going on. You need to move on, Steph. Seriously. Have some dignity, delete your nonsense, go away and get a life.
At November 12, 2024 at 6:02 PM , Anonymous said...: I totally agree. It gave me closure at first but now it’s bat shit crazy with the dumb arguing and ridiculous comments. It’s disrespectful to Kirstens memory and to her family. From: It’sabouttime
At November 13, 2024 at 10:02 AM , Anonymous said...: It’s a crazy show, Stephanie is and always will be a nutcase. Never seen anything like her. Yes it’s very disrespectful to Kirsten’s memory. Stephanie if it is you, go on with your life, you’re too old for this BS. Not all is Stephanie, but a lot of it is I’m sure.
At November 13, 2024 at 10:05 AM , Anonymous said...: November 1st to November 5th, is the crazy show. I don’t care who they are. They need Counseling.
At November 13, 2024 at 2:06 PM , Anonymous said...: Who cares, this is all bizarre. Need to disband this page Ms. Britt.
At November 14, 2024 at 9:28 AM , Anonymous said...: Hi it'saboutime, we have spoken in the past. I'm disgusted with this blog now, so I can't imagine how appalled you must feel reading it. May Kirsten RIP.
At November 14, 2024 at 10:19 AM , Anonymous said...: It’s about I me, so sorry about Kirsten, I read on your comments you 2 were very close. I hate the hate comments on Kirsten, and I suggested to Britt to take this page down. Seems like they’re are haters out there, and they do nothing but makes asses of themselves.
At November 14, 2024 at 10:24 AM , Anonymous said...: I am not Stephane, the nut that got on here many times before, I feel for “Its about time”, and all Kirsten’s loved ones. I seen your posts a lot, and I know it gave you closer at first, but unfortunately we got a lot of Kooks on here with nothing to do but causes drama. May Kirsten rest in Heaven, one day you will meet her again. Sometimes my computer messes up on lettering, and it’s skips, so I have to reboot it many times. But hang on to those special memories, do not let kooks and weirdos get to you.
At November 14, 2024 at 4:05 PM , Anonymous said...: Yes, you are Stephanie. You have absolutely no dignity or self-respect to continue pretending to be different people and writing back and forth to yourself. People can see your particular writing style from a mile away. You have been doing this nonsense for 10+ years now, and you know it's disrespectful to Kirsten and her family, yet you continue to pollute this blog with your BS. It makes you look twisted and repulsive. Go away.
At November 14, 2024 at 5:34 PM , Anonymous said...: I am not Stephanie, that girl ay be dead by now. I do not talk on here back and forth to myself. I gave my regard to Its about time, and tell her it’s not right the way people get on here and spout off and act insane. I’m not going to fight with you on here and disrespect Kirsten or her friends. And I did not go to school with Kirsten or it’s about time. It’s about time, I’m not Stephanie, and I am sincere when it comes to Kirsten. I don’t want arguments it’s so not worth the time and effort, and Peace be with you all, even the person accussing me of being Stephanie.
At November 17, 2024 at 7:06 PM , Anonymous said...: Purple Haze, you been on here for a decade or better saying the same old shit. I know what is going to always come out of your mouth.
At November 17, 2024 at 9:06 PM , Anonymous said...: Not really, Stephanie. I still get email notifications for this blog, but I stopped posting regular comments here years ago. The blog was always a bit toxic, but now it's ridiculous, embarrassing, and very disrespectful to Kirsten. You keep writing silly unhinged bullshit even though you are aware of how disrespectful it is to Kirsten. You really are a disgraceful person with no dignity.
At November 22, 2024 at 10:03 PM , Anonymous said...: November 3 "Don’t like it, then stay off here" - how dare you act like some admin for this site. That role is not available to rambling psychos.
At November 23, 2024 at 11:25 AM , Anonymous said...: You’re the rambling Psycho, Stephanie the one who has 3 different personalities on here”. Talk to yourself and convince yourself you’re a former student, that’s not important now, you people get on here and disrespect Kirsten’s memory, and fight on here, when all you should be doing is remembering the good times about Kirsten! Instead you want to tarnish her good name, and it’s disrespectful, and for Bernadette, she needs to be trashed. Why can’t you be a human and just post nice things on the poor girl whose life has been shortened, never had a chance to grow up, had her whole life ahead of her. Who cares if she was a (bully) she didn’t deserve to have her life shortened. You people have posted the most vulgar stuff on here, “ well some of you”. It’s disgraceful, and unacceptable. Called Kirsten awful names, calling her a bully”. You’re the real bullies or you wouldn’t be picking on Kirsten, you should have empathy for her, and her loved ones. “ it’s about time” I’m so sorry you had to deal with all this mess,I know you were very close to Kirsten, and share some very fond memories together. It’s a shame people haven’t been taught better than to disrespect Kirsten, but unfortunately, you will have Bernadette supporters’ who will be very cruel. The only thing I can tell those who knew Kirsten well, hang on to all those memories, and know she is with you in spirit, and one day you will all meet again. The ones who disrespect Kirsten, I can’t tell you to stay off here, but have empathy for those who were close to her. It could of been your loved one or daughter. How would you of felt if it was. I hope you never have to experience that one ever. I lost a child and I know the pain, I will never be the same. I am broken from it, and disrespect would be the last I would want for my Son.
At November 23, 2024 at 11:39 AM , Anonymous said...: My Son overdosed on Heroin 3 years ago. I was 60 when I lost him. My health has declined, and I don’t talk to anyone anymore (except on here), I don’t know if I ever can get back to where I was, I may never. So I feel for Mr. and Mrs. Costas, he was my only child as well at that, I had health issues and he was there for me always, in spite of his drug problem. I can tell you that when someone loses a child and you no longer see them, you miss them coming in and doing things with them, you miss their help and support, and their love most of all. It doesn’t get better, your kids are suppose to take care of you when you get old, they’re suppose to bury you” not the other way around” You don’t know the days and nights I spent crying and in bed all the time. Loss of energy, I’m not saying this for sympathy, I just want you who disrespect Kirsten to know what it’s like your her family and loved ones, we all mourn differently though, but it’s still is extremely painful. So have a heart, if you’re any kind of person at all’ and be more understanding and sympathetic on here, exclude the bullying,”if that’s what really happened “ cause we all make mistakes.
At November 23, 2024 at 9:30 PM , Anonymous said...: Finally someone calling out that nutcase Stephanie.
At November 24, 2024 at 1:49 PM , Anonymous said...: Stephanie was a nut case, the way she got on here with her crazy comments, and vulgar comments stating she had 3 different personalities that caused her to be 3 different people. But the others on here calling Kirsten names was extremely disrespectful, and, I don’t care what Kirsten has done, or how big of a bully she was. It’s not even about that, the girl was savagely murdered, and she had family and friends who suffered. I hope these people never experience a loss of a child, I wouldn’t wish that on even Bernadette.
At November 29, 2024 at 7:46 PM , Anonymous said...: I'm sorry for anyone who knew Kirsten who may be reading this website. The resident troll is obsessed with this case to an unhealthy degree and won't stop writing nonsense or looking for attention. If this website was removed, she would find another blog to spout nonsense on. She's clearly certifiable.
At November 30, 2024 at 6:16 PM , Anonymous said...: Excuse me November 29: who are you calling a resident troll? Call them out by name or don't make the comment. There are others here who genuinely support Kristen and her family. We will never stop calling out how Bernadette got off easy for cold blooded murder.
At December 1, 2024 at 11:02 AM , Anonymous said...: Yes, Nov, 29, we are not all Trolls on here. And I get on here supporting Kirsten, “I really lost a Son” I do not appreciate your troll comment on me. You have absolutely no idea what you’re talking about on me. You don’t know me. That was so rude what you said. I am sympathetic towards Kirsten, or anyone who lost a Child.
At December 1, 2024 at 11:49 AM , Janet said...: Nov 29, with trillions and trillions of people in the World.how can one person be doing this all! Really, you sure you’re not on here to cause trouble and fight? You seem to be throwing accusations all over. Why don’t you stop causing trouble on here, and insulting people. You’re the same one who keeps saying it’s Stephanie, who is probably dead by now. Get a hobby whoever you are. You keep telling the same story, and we’re tired of hearing about Stephanie.
At December 1, 2024 at 3:40 PM , Anonymous said...: I agree, this about the Troll and Stephanie is getting old.
At December 4, 2024 at 9:19 PM , Anonymous said...: Certifiable
At December 15, 2024 at 1:38 PM , Anonymous said...: I used to post on this blog a few years ago. I cannot believe that Stephanie the troll...aka December 1 (still talking to herself) is still here and pretending to not be the main troll. Scroll back a few years and you'll see the same nonsense from that psycho. Merry Christmas you babbling psycho!
At December 15, 2024 at 6:39 PM , Anonymous said...: I haven’t been on this blog in weeks. Can’t believe December 15 is on here talking foolishness on Stephanie, ( a girl who is probably dead) by now. I swear the craziness still exists on this blog. Need to get a job at Walmart, you’d probably drive the Customers there insane with your weird behavior.
At December 15, 2024 at 8:47 PM , Anonymous said...: This page is ridiculous with crazy comments. I’m surprised people want to still post on here.
At December 16, 2024 at 6:12 PM , Anonymous said...: Oh hello Stephanie (so fake).
At December 23, 2024 at 9:02 AM , Anonymous said...: Here we go again! Same old Crap. Does it ever get old?
At December 31, 2024 at 12:20 PM , Anonymous said...: Happy New Year everyone (except for Stephanie)!
At December 31, 2024 at 7:50 PM , Anonymous said...: Purple Haze, Get a life! Don’t this ever get old to you? Same old conversation and same BS. Everyone else happy new year. I am not Stephanie Purple Haze. I know it’s you posting cause you always talk about Stephanie. Find a hobby girl.
At January 1, 2025 at 1:49 PM , Anonymous said...: Happy New Year. But this page gets a lot of Disrespect! So start the New Year off right with Positivity , and (stop this fussing ), it’s very disrespectful to Kirsten’s memory , “her family and friends that knew her”. So have a Happy New Year to Kirsten’s family, and all her loved ones
At January 2, 2025 at 7:12 PM , Anonymous said...: Happy New Year as well.... but no need for the double post.
At January 10, 2025 at 10:14 AM , Anonymous said...: Stephanie, please stop writing to yourself and pretending to be me ( "purplehaze" - a name I haven't used in years). Other than the couple of comments I wrote to you in November, I made it clear that I stopped coming to this blog years ago because it's an insult to Kirsten and toxic. I wouldn't write something so stupid and childish. I still get email notifications for this blog and can't turn them off without getting into my old account. I will just have to mute this cesspit of a "blog". You have made it clear you are not going to stop writing here no matter how bad you look. You have some sort of Psychological disorder and I can't be bothered writing to you again because you are sick and a lost cause.
At January 12, 2025 at 7:30 PM , Anonymous said...: Agree. Get help Stephanie. Stop with your sick games. So disrespectful to Kirsten's memory. Shame on you.
At February 20, 2025 at 7:03 PM , Anonymous said...: Stephanie finally disappeared? Good riddance. She always played both sides, making sly comments of support for Bernadette. Check the history. See ya bitch. Probably hanging out with Bernadette.
At February 22, 2025 at 2:02 PM , Anonymous said...: Agree...Stephanie has mental issues but no need to be mean. Just be thankful she is silent. Rest in peace Kirsten.
At February 23, 2025 at 9:32 AM , Anonymous said...: Yes…. Forget Stephanie, I’m so sick of hearing about Stephanie, I’m glad the nut case is gone as well, this is Kirsten’s page, post about her. She will always be remembered by those who loved and cherished her.
At April 25, 2025 at 7:34 PM , Anonymous said...: I for one miss Stephanie. At least she kept attention on this horrific cold-blooded murder. Bernadette should never live in peace. Burn in hell Bernadette!
At April 27, 2025 at 10:37 AM , Anonymous said...: Boy just got on today and haven’t been on in a month, and already the Stephanie “ shitshow” has started up. Maybe she died, and if that’s the case, maybe you will stop talking and posting on here about her. Yes Bernadette needs to “never live in peace”, but let the other shit on Stephanie go please. This is a sympathy page on Kirsten( not Stephanie) so just stop talking about her please!!!!
At April 27, 2025 at 11:36 AM , Anonymous said...: Yeah go live with Stephanie whoever you are if you miss her so much on here. Then you can be entertained all you desired.
At April 28, 2025 at 4:14 PM , Anonymous said...: Bernadette will probably rot in Hell and dance with Satan when she dies. She probably is having sex with the Grim reaper now.
At May 3, 2025 at 10:44 AM , Anonymous said...: Wow - so much Stephanie bashing. At least she gave Kirsten a voice to counter the pathetic Bernadette rationalizers.
At May 4, 2025 at 8:47 AM , Anonymous said...: I’m not worried about Stephanie. I just think it’s a waste of time talking about her all the time, especially if she isn’t around anymore. I said it before, and I’ll say it again, “ this is a page for Kirsten” not Stephanie, and we’re to bash (Bernadette) for her “savage crime”.
At May 4, 2025 at 6:20 PM , Anonymous said...: Yes this Stephanie is getting a bit old. She’s no where around, so let the crap go.
At May 19, 2025 at 9:44 PM , Anonymous said...: Oh she's around, May 4. How about you mind your own business?
At May 20, 2025 at 1:58 PM , Anonymous said...: Oh stop the drama on Stephanie being around. Who cares,, you seem to be obsessed more with (Stephanie) other than Kirsten. “I don’t care if she is around”, and I don’t care what she she does or doesn’t do. No one is interested in this crazy show you come up with.
At May 20, 2025 at 2:02 PM , Anonymous said...: I personally don’t care if Stephanie is living in the White House with plenty of Servants. No one does. That’s the point of all this, none of us care, “ end of story” with this Stephanie and what she does.
At May 22, 2025 at 12:23 PM , Anonymous said...: May 20 , just ignore the comments. It’s from some crazy person who is bored and keeps repetitive conversations going. Don’t feed into it and maybe the person will go away.
At May 25, 2025 at 11:53 AM , Anonymous said...: May 20: you complete psycho! Somehow you managed to bring more drama than Stephanie. Why don't you focus on something productive like making sure that murderer bitch Bernadette never lives in peace?
At May 25, 2025 at 1:29 PM , Anonymous said...: May 25th you’re the psycho. You always want to talk repetively “about Stephanie”. I do hope Bernadette rots in Hell and never gets justice. But this isn ‘t a page about Stephanie, just forget Stephanie. Now let’s talk about Bernadette never living in Peace. She will never be living peacefully and does not deserve to. She deserves everything that is happening to her, do I feel for her and the way people hate her, “Hell No”. She gets harassed a lot, well I have not one ounce of feeling for that Witch and if she died and went to Hell I wouldn’t care, cause that’s where she belongs. Kirsten from the way I gathered was a sweet and bubbly girl with a great personality that took to other students. Bernadette wanted that and couldn’t get it, she could never measure up to Kirsten, and never will. Bernadette probably has sex with Satan and all the Demons in Hell. As she needs to. When she dies that’s what she will be doing, if she isn’t already. She’s Hell bound. Who’s to say if Bernadette is even alive, and who cares. She’s psychotic if she is alive, always was and always will be. I heard she had breakdowns and all, don’t know how true it is, but no one feels a bit sorry for her, and if they do, they’re psycho to. Bernadette should of gotten “life” without the possibility of parole. Her BFF I doubt she talks with her, doubt Bernadette remembers her cause her mind is so sick and far gone. It has been for 42 or better years. Cause does not matter if Kirsten did bully her, no right to take her life, and Kirsten was young, and probably didn’t realize she hurt Bernadette’s feelings, no excuse, Bernadette wouldn’t of been insulted by Kirsten if she stayed out of her face (Kirsten’s) that is, but it was just so important for Kirsten’s acceptance by Bernadette that Bernadette forges a fake meeting. Bernadette was popular to from what I read, but not as popular as Kirsten. Kirsten was in the clique that counted, where Homecoming Queen and Prom Queen and Court ,and she was in that group. Bernadette wasn’t and she got enraged and killed her cause Kirsten was going to tell her friends about the conversation. So yes it all caught up with Bernadette, and now she is the most hated person wherever she goes and is known. Cause people all over know about this case and know her new identity, and it’s going to follow her, and Orinda people will always hate her, and are not willing to let this go by a long way. They will remember this till the day she takes her last breath.
At May 29, 2025 at 4:08 PM , Anonymous said...: Wow - looks like the wack job escaped from the asylum. Scary!
At May 30, 2025 at 6:08 PM , Anonymous said...: I think you all (above) escaped from the Looney Bin. That or strung out on Heroin. You should all be ashamed of yourselves.
At May 30, 2025 at 6:10 PM , Anonymous said...: May 20, 22 ,25 and 29 is strung out on something.
At May 31, 2025 at 10:48 AM , Anonymous said...: Why don’t you all try praying instead of hating. This blog has got so far out of control it’s a wonder the Owner doesn’t take all this down. It’s very disrespectful to Kirsten’s memory. People are bashing one another on here and insulting one another, think God would be happy about it, and think Kirsten would want all this going on in her memory!
At June 2, 2025 at 8:47 PM , Anonymous said...: May 31 - why don't you try to be a tad less self-righteous as we move into June? Who are you anyway? The Blog Police? We will always be here to call out Bernadette for cold blooded murder. Don't you forget that.
At June 4, 2025 at 8:33 AM , Anonymous said...: Above: This is an open discussion on the crime of Bernadette. But it’s been turned into a Gossip Column and “ hate wars” on here mostly. I am so not in favor of what Bernadette did, and yes she needed to be adequately punished, but the other ramblers on here throwing insults at one another and gossiping on here about (former) Miramonte Students on here is absolutely uncalled for. It’s just draining people’s energy on the drama on here, no wonder no one wants to get on here any longer.
At June 7, 2025 at 12:07 PM , Anonymous said...: Gee, thank you for your insights June 4, "I am so not in favor of what Bernadette did, and yes she needed to be adequately punished." How pathetic. She deserves to burn in hell. We will NEVER let this murderer live in peace. Take your "go soft on violent crime" opinion elsewhere.
At June 8, 2025 at 7:25 PM , Anonymous said...: June 7th, agree. Bernadette deserves to burn in hell. But that’s up to GOD…. I am not defending this murderer at all, I’m referring to people on here who slam and hurl insults at one another than other than discussing this crime, and gossiping about other students from Kirstens former high school, what do they have to do with this case? I seen posts about personal stuff on people who knew Kirsten and it’s no one else’s business what they said or did if they’re not directly involved in this case. And fighting on here is lame. It’s time people on here grew up and discuss this case as adults only. Thank you for your insight whoever you are.
At June 14, 2025 at 3:44 PM , Anonymous said...: June 7: I understand your point. That person (they know who they are) sometimes minimizes the seriousness of Bernadette's crime and it is concerning to the rest of us. Thank you for calling her out on that.
At June 14, 2025 at 7:15 PM , Anonymous said...: You’re welcome, yes Bernadette is awful and a piece of trash that should burn deep in Hell. I am glad the bashing stopped and the gossiping. What do you mean “ you know who you are” that’s what I am confused on now.
At June 15, 2025 at 12:27 PM , Anonymous said...: You refereed to “ that person” minimizing the serious of Bernadette’s crime, they know who they are! In my point this is way beyond serious. It will never be in the past, Kirsten is gone forever. I just noticed people get on here and talk about former Miramonte students, and gossip about them, and gossip about Kirsten’s friends revealing their identity and then bash people on here. To me that is stupidity. We already covered that one, so we can move on to the next topic. Bernadette needs to be in Hell way deep down burning in Cow Shit! I have no mercy on killers they are low life trash, and that is just what Bernadette was, is and always will be, anyone who defends her is trash and probably murdered themselves and yet not been caught. Bernadette probably has murdered since then and knows exactly how to cover it up better, and some innocent person got the blame and probably in prison over it.
At June 16, 2025 at 5:24 PM , Anonymous said...: Above they should make Bernadette swallow Cowshit.

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