Tuesday, October 6, 2015

Jeannette Tomanka's quote of the day

'Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what could be' 


Great mantra for a killer. Let's all forget you viciously and violently killed a child. Yeah easier said than done. 

65 comments:

  1. Yeah, how dare she move on with her life?

    People like you give me indigestion.

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    1. I just look forward to your post Dianna or Jeannette or Virginia. We all know it's either you or your family who use this handle to defend a murderer. You're shitty as fuck to defend any person who killed a person if it wasn't in self defense. Bye "Layla" lol

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    2. She should not have the RIGHT TO MOVE ON! She took someone's life in COLD BLOOD! God forbid something like this would happen to one of her children she wouldn't seek justice I presume.

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  2. I have to wonder has her life changed since her identity is out there?? I wonder how others feel about her.

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    1. I wonder too. Can't imagine it's been good for her social life. I know a LOT of moms who will google the parent whose house their kid is going to play at for safety reasons.

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  3. Yes, I mean we all want to give others a chance, but this is a pretty big crime! She has not committed other crimes, I think that is why this is an odd case. Most who commit such horrific crimes never get out of jail or probably go back in! Her poor children-I mean this is about as bad as it gets crime wise!

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    1. Her community deserves to know what she did. If she had been a child molestor she would be on a registry.


      What type of country is this? You can kill a child and people will defend your right to move on with your life and call for privacy but you touch a child and everybody has a right to know your address and a lifetime on a registry. Jeannette Tomanka should be on a registry. There should be a registry of murderers. When killers move into your neighborhood you have a right to know who they are and what they did.

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    2. You are spot on! I am a true believer in Karma. One day it will prevail in this case. When she least expects it.

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  4. Jeannette is active with the PGA North Texas Junior Golf Foundation in Dallas and the Texas Junior Golf Tour out of Southlake. I bet if those people knew what she did, they would be HORRIFIED. Do not forget, people; Bernadette SHOWED ZERO REMORSE, and she let the community BLAME 2 OTHER INNOCENT GIRLS for 6 MONTHS FOR KIRSTEN'S MURDER. She NEVER would have confessed to this heinous, evil, murder; The FBI was closing in on her, and they told her that, so she FINALLY WAS FORCED TO CONFESS!!!

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  5. I just read on the internet that Jeanette works in Fort Worth Texas in the medical field as a Nurse Practitioner at a Alcon Labratories. That FRIGHTENS ME! Being in the medical field myself I have to wonder how this has effected her career since she has been exposed.

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    1. I read that 2005 she became a directed of a cancer center..has done breast cancer research.and has wrote articles in medical journals about the research..it was also stated that her medical licence expired in 2016.

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  6. Let's not forget Bernadette also lied about the party. There was NO party. The prosecution should have focused on whether the knife was put back in the car and if not, trip up the sister on the stand and ask what is in her car now for "cutting the veggies". We should petition that another movie be made with the real facts and that Lifetime and the person who wrote the article on Rolling Stone be called out!! Bernadette should still be in jail. She was not bullied AT ALL!!!!!! A jealous person is a dangerous person. Her posts on this blog and all the other blogs just prove her continued insanity. God forbid her husband cheats on her. One of the officers at her parole hearing did not want her released as she showed signs of jealousy with her then inmate boyfriend. It's all documented. That is a big deal to me. There is a stigma about Kirsten due to the movie, the Rolling Stone article and Bernadette's continued anonymous posts and followers. This stigma must be proven wrong.

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    1. Do you the link to the articles about her being jealous about a bf?

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  7. Do you still need to link? It looks like you found it based on the new post? I will still dig it up and post it.

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  8. Yes I am eagerly awaiting to here Bernie's side of the story!

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  9. Gary Tomanka her husband has a website. Is her a fellow felon too? A lot of college professors go into teaching because it's one of the few professions that doesn't require a background check. I'm assuming her daughter plays golf at the junior level--must be very disgraceful for a twelve year old to have to deal with.

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  10. I have often thought that as well. Also, just a side note, look up "My Life of Crime" and read "Elgars" posts. That is definitely Virginia!!! Might even be using her husbands picture. Profile shows as a banker in London.

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  11. Oh good lord people... it happened back in 1984. Let it go!

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    1. And all these years later, Kirsten is dead. No chance to do the things in life that you or I - or most importantly, her killer - have done.

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    2. Wow God forbid your family member gets brutally murdered. We'll see how long it would take u to "let it go"!

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  12. The comments left by Bernadette and Virginia just solidify the cold, narcissistic nature of this entire family.

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  13. It is not easy to let it go when someone in your family is taken too soon. My brother was killed by a drunk driver in 1986 and I am still not too fond of the driver who lived of course!

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  14. No, "B3burner", people should not let it go. Bernadette/Jeanette is mentally unhinged and should still be in jail for her horrendous crime.

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  15. I really think you people need to,leave things where there at with Bernadette and let God be the one to decide.

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  16. She needed more time in jail I do agree but she s married with children her kid didn't do a thing wrong not the kids,fault Bernadette was bullied in her childhood years I was told over not having money she was bullied some but more bullied and jeered at during her trial. Her best friend was bullied for defending her at school I do know that.

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  17. Who were the 2 girls who,were blamed? They,aren't blamed now and people probaly apologized to them one was singled out by Kirsten Costas,I hear.

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  18. She needed more time in jail I do agree but she s married with children her kid didn't do a thing wrong not the kids,fault Bernadette was bullied in her childhood years I was told over not having money she was bullied some but more bullied and jeered at during her trial. Her best friend was bullied for defending her at school I do know that.

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  19. Get over the past.......
    You sound as crazy as Bernadette.

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  20. Many people live within a ten minute drive of this convicted, self-proclaimed murderer. It would be a shame if a group of people decided to notify her school, church, and employer. It would be even worse if flyers were printed up and plastered all over the neighborhood Heck, what if a website is made with current pictures? Some people are mean enough to do it, and I have been told it is in the works.

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  21. You've been told nothing. Nice try.

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  22. Anon, Nov 29,

    Are you joking?

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  23. Anon, Dec 2,

    How do you know he/sh was told nothing?

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  24. There is a Gary Tomanka who teaches geology at Tarrant County College? Is he the husband of the killer?

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  25. Anon, surely recent pics of Bernadette wouldn't be that different to what is on the Google search engine. Anyone can find out what she looks like if they want to.

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  26. The Gary Tomanka working at Tarrant County College is Bernie's husband.

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  27. Yeah, old news about the husband. Why has he suddenly become an object of fascination on this blog? He had nothing to do with the murder and allegedly didn't even know about it until a couple of years ago.

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  28. Do 4 comments about Mr Tomanka suggest people are fascinated? What an over reaction. Get over yourself, friend.

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  29. Hi Bernie! Ya can't keep away from this blog. Make sure to Keep taking your anti psychotic meds.

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  30. What the hell do you care if the husband is mentioned?

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  31. Interesting. I wonder how many people would be like this Gary Tomanka and stay with a wife that they knew was a murderer? IT must be quite a shock to realize you've been taken in by a sociopath.

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  32. Bernadette probably convinced him that she was the victim of Kirsten.

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  33. Purple Haze and Brittany, who writes this shitty blog, are the worst kind of people I saw online..and lots of who signed as Anonymous...And you Brittany, who do you think you are?...how dare you post her personal stuffs?....you are not who you present for....You are the relative of Kirsten Costas who pursued that poor woman who suffered enough...You are unmarried old woman in 55 yrs old...I discovered you and will report this lousy blog...get a life if you can...

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    1. Yes..I agree..they all post anonymous..that says a lot. Shit happens. Sounds like the consequences for bullies is something u have to think about. Costos was a bully. Leave this woman alone. You are not God. She's doing great n deserves to b great. Post ur real names n pictures bulies. Birds of a feather flock together..ever hear that? You nasty people trying to ruin this woman's life sound like costos..maybe that's why she's no longer here. Hummm.

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  34. You tell them Doris. I'm not so sure some of these stalkers aren't much better. Though one could easily argue that the punishment didn't fit the crime. She did serve the debt given to her by the state and the laws on the books at the time. It's pretty clear she had issues at the time. Hopefully, she got the help she needed. It doesn't appear she has had any problems since and has made the best of the situation. No of the crap being spread here (mostly by woman addicted to the ID channe) will bring Kirsten back and will only hurt some innocent people. I hope you people are proud.

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  35. If she makes a joke and refers to herself as the life hacker it seems to be that she still has issues.

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  36. More aliases from English Stephanie. Your grammar has improved, but I still know it's you. Wow, you are so despicable, it's sickening. Don't you realize that Bernadette would also have caught on to your crap on her FB page? You are a sociopath.

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  37. Hi Doris/Stephanie.

    Your comment is just a copy of what a Bernadette supporter wrote a while back.

    I'll humour your nonsense and answer your questions.

    "Purple Haze and Brittany, who writes this shitty blog, are the worst kind of people I saw online"

    So.... people who support a murder victim are the worst kind of people you saw online? So if you think people who have empathy and support a murder victim are the worst you have seen online, do you support those online who don't have empathy like racists, murderer sympathisers...etc?

    "how dare you post her personal stuffs?"

    What personal stuffs?

    "you are not who you present for....You are the relative of Kirsten Costas who pursued that poor woman who suffered enough."

    You know we aren't related to Kirsten. How did I pursue Bernadette? How has she suffered? Her behaviour after Kirsten's murder showed that they didn't have remorse. Someone who isn't capable of feeling remorse doesn't suffer.

    "You are unmarried old woman in 55 yrs old"

    This is a line taken directly from someone else's comment. I'm not what you have suggested, but we're online so I can't prove it. I'm actually younger that you.

    "I discovered you and will report this lousy blog...get a life if you can.."

    If you discovered me, you would know I wasn’t what you suggested above. Report this to whom? So...those who write a couple of comments on a blog that supports Kirsten -- a murder victim -- should get a life as opposed to you -- a woman in her 30's who has spent time creating and writing under many aliases on this blog with the purpose of provoking people? A woman who has pretended to support Bernadette and criticise Kirsten under some aliases, and support Kirsten and criticise Bernadette and her family under other aliases? A woman who has pretended to be Bernadette, Bernadette's family member, a former Miramonte student, a former friend of Bernadette's, a friend of Kirsten's, a classmate of Bernadette's and Kirsten's, various American women, Kirsten's family member, Kirsten's mother...and you are telling us to get a life?

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  38. Hi Unknown/Stephanie

    Addicted to the ID channel? That is one of the things that gave you away.

    If people who support a murder victim on this blog are stalkers, what is someone who looks up blog names on FB and pretends to be them on the blog?

    What is someone who has pretended to be Bernadette, Kirsten and Kirsten's mother on Facebook?

    "Hopefully, she got the help she needed"

    I hope that you get help. Your behaviour has portrayed you as very unstable.

    "I hope you people are proud"

    I have no doubt that your behaviour on this blog and pretending to be Bernadette, Kirsten and Kirsten's mother on facebook makes you feel very proud.

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  39. Stephanie D
    33/34
    Liverpool, England.
    Supports Everton F.C
    Is obsessed with 80's sitcoms and movies
    Loves Molly Ringwald
    Believes she is a born again Christian
    Has short hair and an eccentric dress sense
    Is madder than a box of frogs

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  40. Was that Molly Ringwald speaking in the documentary The Deadliest Decade? I didn't think she went to school there, but it looked like her talking.

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  41. I think it might have been Shelly Duvall.

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  42. How did she even get out she should be in prison on death row for murdering kristen this makes me angry you take someones life you get life this is why i wanted to join the police force so peoole like this scum dont get away with anything

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  43. How did she even get out she should be in prison on death row for murdering kristen this makes me angry you take someones life you get life this is why i wanted to join the police force so peoole like this scum dont get away with anything

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  44. What exactly is a life hacker? Is Bernadette Jeanette using it as a euphemism for murderer? I can't imagine why she would want to keep classifying herself as a murderer.

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  45. Bernadette slaughtered Kirsten and she Bernadette knew she was going to do this as proven by her having planned it out ahead of time and tricking poor, innocent Kirsten out of the house so Bernadette could get her alone. I fully believe that Bernadette's family is also sick & evil. Someone had to have helped Bernadette clean up that car, (she didn't even have a license at that time she drove that car) - someone in her family had to have been waiting up for her to get home. When the police found the car it was in the garage and yet the sister said in court that huge knife was hers for cutting vegetables in this car that she uses all the time?? Why was the car hidden in the garage?? Bernadette is the one who said that Kirsten told her she was weird - how do we know that Kirsten ever told her that at all? We don't because we only have the word of a sadistic, twisted murderer who never took accountability for her heinous, unjustified act. I wish the police who work the cold case files would look into this case to determine who in that family helped Bernadette - they should be charged for what they did. That whole family is such a disgrace - if anything they are living proof that all their religious talk is just that - talk !

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  46. At July 11, 2017 at 8:25 AM , Anonymous Anonymous said...
    What exactly is a life hacker? Is Bernadette Jeanette using it as a euphemism for murderer? I can't imagine why she would want to keep classifying herself as a murderer. ---------------------- Bernadette/Jeannette you are as evil now as you were when you butchered Kirsten. What will you tell your children when they inevitably find out that you are a murderer who killed an INNOCENT CHILD ??

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  47. I saw this similar quote on her page saying "don't mourn the past" Like are you serious?! you served 7 years for KILLING YOUR CLASSMATE. WTF is wrong with you!?.

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  48. Bernadette isn’t working now, and I wouldn’t let her be my Nurse by any means. Kirsten’s friends described her as a vivacious girl and Sassy and cute as a button. So that Tori Spelling was portrayed All wrong, Kirsten was a lovely girl. A friends mom on an article described Kirsten as a love able puppy who hugged people. So the movie was pro Bernadette, they felt sorry for Bernadette probaly cause of the publicity she got from it, she deserves it. I think Bernadette said something deranged to Kirsten and it freaked Kirsten out, she may of tried to kiss her, and Kirsten got it all wrong. She chased after Kirsten. Kirsten I’m sure had her moments as all teen girls do, not everyone likes everyone, we all have people we don’t like, Kirsten probaly had some she didn’t, but I can guarantee she would never harm anyone with violence. Yes she may of said smart aleck things to some of the people she didn’t like, but, who didn’t as a teen! Most teen girls are caddy and smart alecky at times. If that’s the case to kill all teen girls who are smart alecks, there would be a shortage on teenage girls. In fact, there wouldn’t be any and very few if any left.

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  49. RIP Kirsten. You were the real victim and plenty of people see that.

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